Alzheimer's is a type of dementia that causes problems with memory, thinking and behavior. Symptoms usually develop slowly and get worse over time, becoming severe enough to interfere with daily tasks.
One of the hardest parts of dealing with Alzheimer’s disease is knowing that an elder will never get better. The disease causes cognitive deterioration, and while this process can be slowed, there is currently no way to cure it.
The progression can be difficult for families because even though they can enjoy the remaining time with their relative, there is no hope that they will recover. Understanding the disease makes it easier for families and sufferers to cope with the progression of the illness and help them make the most of the time remaining with their family member.
A reputable In-Home Care agency can provide occasional respite care and additional support in the home when needed.
Symptoms
While short term memory loss is the most obvious sign of dementia, your loved one may deal with a variety of other consequences due to his Alzheimer’s disease. Patients may be fatigued and no longer have the ability to do many of the physical activities they used to enjoy. It can be difficult for Alzheimer’s patients to maintain their appearance, which leads to lower self-esteem. You may find your loved one is moody and depressed as a result of his suffering self-image.
They may withdraw from social activities, and it can be challenging to encourage them to maintain personal relationships. Those who are in the early stages of Alzheimer’s may understand something is changing within them and they may be embarrassed by their early bouts with the disease.
People who were previously capable and earning a living outside the home may find that their ability to work may be diminished as a result of the disease. The length of time someone suffering from early dementia can remain in their job may depend on their profession. However, their disorientation will eventually require them to modify their professional activities. If a family is depending on the salary of the Alzheimer’s patient, arrangements will need to be made to compensate for the eventual loss of income.
Family members may find they are frustrated and impatient with their loved ones suffering from dementia. It can take extra time for Alzheimer’s patients to complete trivial tasks that previously came easy. While relatives may have patience with the younger children in their life, they may not understand that senior relatives need the same courtesy. The disease can leave everyone in the family feeling frustrated, angry, and depressed. Your loved one is no longer able to provide what you need. Finding support and assistance can make a big difference in the life of a family dealing with Alzheimer’s. In the Windsor and Essex County area, Amy’s Helping Hands provides in-home caregivers that allow families to continue to care for their loved one, while getting occasional respite care and additional support in the home when needed.
Tips
Alzheimer’s disease cannot be cured. However, a family can take measures that make the transitions and changes easier to cope with. The most important thing to do if a loved has been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s is to learn as much as possible about the disease. Knowing what to expect, and speaking with doctors about slowing the progression of the disease, can make the early stages much easier. Encourage your loved one to stay active and continue to do things he enjoys. Just because a diagnosis has been made does not mean life is over.
You and your loved one should speak with your family physician. Do not be afraid to ask questions and gather information. During the meeting, you may want to take notes. Beforehand, jot down anything you would like to ask. Review long- and short-term options, get an otherwise clean bill of health, and then make the most of the time you have together.
Most communities or hospitals and medical centers offer support services. Your loved one may appreciate being able to interact with others who are dealing with the disease. Even if he does not have a desire to seek the help of others, you may benefit. Managing the stress of the disease helps you stay healthy and be a more effective caregiver. If you allow stress to build up, you will feel worse. Knowing your time with your loved one is precious and limited, try not to spend it feeling angry and resentful. Organize a routine for them, support them in any way you can, and turn to others in similar situations when it all feels like it is too much.
The information in the article is not intended to substitute for the medical expertise and advice of your healthcare provider. We encourage you to discuss any decisions about treatment or care with an appropriate healthcare provider.
